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Dear Dr. Love,
I am in the personal training business. I train a lot of wealthy men. I hear all about how unhappy they are at home. Most of them get treated poorly, both in and out of the bedroom, by their spouses. I’m just wondering when women took over the masculinity of their households.

Tommy Boy, Glen Cove

Dear Tommy Boy,
I think you’ve been hiding out at the gym a little too much! If you ask most married men who “runs the show,” I’m afraid the answer is the woman.

Unfortunately, some men can lose their masculinity by confusing it with a word called dominance. In a perfect world, married people or singles who are in a relationship should have a 50-50 equality, but it never is. I know from personal experience.

Tommy Boy, the women of 2010 are a unique breed. Many are earning more than their husbands and/or boyfriends. And, they spend this money as they see fit. No need to get approval.

Some of my friends like the idea that the woman plans the events, where and what to have for dinner, what movie to see, when to have sex, etc. For me, as an alpha dog, it rubs me wrong.

Perhaps your clients are just making small talk with you so you’ll feel sorry for their misery and will go easy with them on your training session [sic].

But I bet what they confide in you is enough to keep you single, right? Just have fun.

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