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Dear Dr. Love,

I’m curious, when it comes to dating, do you have any special rules that you live by on a day to day basis?

All my love,
Francis, Lake Grove

Dear Francis,
Your question ended with the words “All my love”…do we know each other? I never dated a Francis from Lake Grove. Let me share my 8 favorite rules:

Rule #1: I never date a married woman. Why? Because you’re playing with fire and there’s a good chance you’ll get burned. For some men (and women), it’s preferred because the other party involved can never commit. It’s a quick hit and run opportunity. But I will pass, thank you.

Rule #2: I know her dog (or cat) will come first. Once a man is no longer in the picture, many divorced women profess their love for a furry animal. Some even sleep with them. Personally, I think fish are the better choice. I do like dogs, but not to sleep with.

Rule #3: If I say, “I’ll call,” then I will call. Why do so many guys ask for a phone number and not follow up? Why waste time and effort? Women appreciate honesty in a man, not game playing.

Rule #4: I don’t tell all. Women (and men) really don’t want to know the details of who they are dating. Sometimes, I wish I would follow my own advice.

Rule #5: I do not enjoy the company of a bold, brash and controlling woman. Who would? Whether you are a man or a woman, the last thing you should seek in a mate is a competitive person with a chip on his/her shoulder.

Rule #6: I do not overanalyze what or why she says certain things. Guys can never figure out a woman, so why try? We’re dealing with emotions most guys know little about.

Rule #7: I never do dinner the first time out. It’s not just about the money. It’s really more of wasting time if there is no chemistry. If I want a dinner date, I’m better off selecting someone I at least like a little bit. Get my drift?

Rule #8: I accept every woman for who (she thinks) she is. Just realize that the guys you meet may not agree with your logic.

Please note: Whatever applies to a woman in the above can easily have the word “man” in its place.

To everyone, may 2011 bring you happiness, peace and a better return on your financial investments. Please send your comments and questions to .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address). Until next year, happy dating!